tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post111099214797736682..comments2023-10-23T09:21:51.759-04:00Comments on Days of Deerledge: The Image of SelfSherihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06543916613150464407noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post-1111197350944494752005-03-18T20:55:00.000-05:002005-03-18T20:55:00.000-05:00Sheri, this post really spoke to me. I have strug...Sheri, this post really spoke to me. I have struggled all my life with my weight and as I look back at pics esp of high school I realize that I was healthy, not fat. But my Mother put me on my first diet when I, I am sure some sort of transference related to HER body image issues. Now, as I work to lose the weight I have gained these last years, hopefully, I am healing from some of that. Thanks for your post and putting it out there...Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045769392036053038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post-1111122400621759142005-03-18T00:06:00.000-05:002005-03-18T00:06:00.000-05:00As I was going through my Gram's pictures before h...As I was going through my Gram's pictures before her funeral a few weeks ago, I saw many photos of me in college, and I couldn't believe how thin I was -- and how fat I thought I was at the time. <BR/><BR/>My parents made few comments about how we looked (I went through a very heavy stage in middle school/high school), but I think even without those comments, it's easy to have a poor self-image. <BR/><BR/>The best thing you can do is be kind to yourself -- your daughter will model what you do for yourself as much as what you do for her.<BR/><BR/>I love your writing Sheri. I don't often get to comment, but I read often. <BR/><BR/>((HUGS))<BR/><BR/>JulesJuleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14817564243715197081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post-1111084876413538692005-03-17T13:41:00.000-05:002005-03-17T13:41:00.000-05:00Well said. I've talked a little (heh heh) on my b...Well said. I've talked a little (heh heh) on my blog about my body image. I am so conscious of what say to my kids, my daughter especially. I really don't want her to grow up with the same pressure I did. I try my best to ensure she grows up knowing how beautiful she is, inside and out, regardless of what other people think.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05621972387398363718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post-1111010008979736222005-03-16T16:53:00.000-05:002005-03-16T16:53:00.000-05:00I was pressured by Dad too! But for me it was bit...I was pressured by Dad too! But for me it was biting my nails, pimples, and getting better grades. I don't know why, but it never got to me too much. I think its because I never admired him much or looked up to him. I hated that he couldn't get along with Scott and I hated his drinking and how he treated Mom. So I guess I didn't take what he said too much to heart. Now I just feel sorry for him. It's too bad he made the choices he did, there are so many events in our family that he has missed out on, and maybe he might have changed over the years. I'm sorry I am older than you, and you had to be compared to me. I know growing up that I never felt prettier, or smarter, or more athletic. I am jealous of you now, though. Because you get to have Mom to yourself all the time! I wanted to live near Mom, and have her watch my kids for me, and bond with them, and have Sunday dinners. Even though I live close to Avis, its not the same.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12831144152790335800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7062125.post-1111003977042399712005-03-16T15:12:00.000-05:002005-03-16T15:12:00.000-05:00That is a very good way to raise your daughter, I ...That is a very good way to raise your daughter, I too, have always had self-image problems. I remember watching Savannah, at 300 pound, full of self confidence, full of happiness and wearing belly shirts with lots of belly showing and not be bothered by it. I thought that it was great that she didn't put her whole self worth in her "size". I learned alot from her. I try not to say negative things about Bre, who is a bit over weight, but beautiful. If she is happy with herself and healthy, then I am happy. Now if only I could become happy with the way I feel about the way I look. Maybe we should all wear extra large grain sacks and no one would be able to judge us by the way we look. That would be nice!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com